Single Over 30: Attract a Trustworthy, Marriage-Minded Man
On the Single Over 30 podcast, dating and relationship coach Shana Schutte will give you practical strategies to help you attract a trustworthy marriage-minded man and overcome internal and external obstacles so you don't waste your time in dead-end, going nowhere relationships. The dream you have to love--and be loved--is possible!
Shana didn't marry until she was in her forties; she knows what it's like to stand in your single shoes.
Episodes
142 episodes
Real Talk: What Men Value in Women Over Time
Hi there, Single Lady!As they age, what do men really value in women? If you’re a woman over 30 looking to build a meaningful connection that leads to marriage, this episode is for you. My husband, Clark, and I cut through the noise and...
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Season 4
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Episode 140
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18:32
Years on the Phone: Is it Time to Move on or Speak Up?
In this episode, I dive into the emotional rollercoaster of being stuck in a "friendlationship." You've been talking to him (maybe for years) on the phone and you're interested, but he hasn't made any effort to take things to the next l...
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10:31
Should You Tell a Man: "I don't need a man?"
Hey there, Awesome Single Lady!If you're a woman who is over 30 and is ready to find a meaningful relationship, then you're going to love this message. In this episode, we dive into one of today’s biggest dating debates: Should ...
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Season 4
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Episode 138
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11:38
Decoding Breadcrumbing: Spotting the Signs and Setting Boundaries
Hi, Shana Awesome Single Lady!Are you tired of mixed signals, dead-end conversations, and relationships that leave you feeling confused and unfulfilled? You’re not alone. In today's Single Over 30 podcast episode, Decoding Br...
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Season 4
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Episode 139
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10:28
I'm Back! Where Were You, Shana? Plus, How to Set Physical Boundaries
I can't believe it's been so long! I am so grateful to be back doing the Single Over 30 podcast! Words can't express what has happened in journey, but I'm going to try and give you a little bit of what has happened to me over the last 15 months...
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Season 3
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Episode 36
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16:49
[Special Episode] The Way She Met Her Husband Will Blow Your Mind
In this special interview on the Single Over 30 podcast, I have a great conversation with one of my old roommates, Monica, who married in her thirties and met her husband in a way that will blow your mind! My conversation with Monica is a remin...
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Season 2
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Episode 135
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32:55
In a Toxic Relationship? How to Tell
Before I married, I once chatted with a 36-year-old man on the Internet who asked if I would like to see his requirements for a mate and marriage. “Sure‚” I typed. “Send them over.” His request was curious, but I was amused when I received his ...
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Season 3
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Episode 134
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10:38
9 First Date Dilemmas (and what to do about them)
Hey there, Single Lady!First Date Dilemmas. They happen all the time. Maybe he asks you out after the first date but then you never hear from him again.He asks you out, you go out and have a good time, but then seems like he just...
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Season 3
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Episode 133
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18:10
How Grieving the Loss of Ideal Love Can Help You Find True Love
Many women I coach struggle with deep grief that their love story hasn't worked out the way they desire when they enter their late thirties and early forties. Maybe you can relate. (I certainly felt a lot of grief in my forties.)I...
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Season 3
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Episode 133
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18:11
What to Do When You Feel Afraid to Date or to Love
When I was dating and I met a man I really liked, I often experienced a lot of fear. There was something in me that would get triggered and I would become very anxious.I was confident and happy in the rest of my life, but enter Mr. Charm...
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Season 3
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Episode 132
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10:04
Things That Keep Women Single
Around the time I turned 35, I started wondering, "Why am I still single?" I had no idea what would have possibly prevented me from meeting my Mister Right. What I didn't know was that I had some unhealthy dating patterns that were holding me b...
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Season 3
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Episode 131
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25:57
How to Recognize Red Flags and Red Flag Men
Hi there, Single Lady! This is a "must listen" episode because the majority of the women I have worked with or coached say that they have encountered Red Flag Men. In this episode, I help you recognize red flags. Have ...
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Season 3
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Episode 130
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19:18
My Hubby Joins Me for How to Invite a Man to Pursue You (without chasing him)
Hey there, Single Lady! This is a fun episode and I know you're going to love it. In this episode, my husband and I talk about: The difference between chasing and inviting a man to pursue youWhy it's okay ...
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Season 3
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Episode 129
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26:28
Limerance or Love? How to Tell the Difference
Have you ever felt as if you were in love with a man but then it turned out not to be love at all, or maybe even a toxic relationship, a complete mismatch? But it felt so right at the beginning. This brings up the question: Was it love ...
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Season 3
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Episode 128
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11:23
8 Marriage Myths Single Women Need to Ditch
I've been married for almost 9 years now. How time has flown! My husband and I have a good marriage and we're still going strong, for which I am thankful. Recently, though, there was a discussion in a singles group online about mar...
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Season 3
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Episode 127
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18:32
How to Find Responsible, Mature Men to Date
Hey there Single Lady! The women I coach want to date MEN, guys who have their lives together and have grown up, men who know what it means to care for, cherish, and protect a woman. If you can relate . . . if you want to find mature me...
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Season 3
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Episode 126
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9:10
How to Date Intentionally to Get the Proposal
In this episode of the Single Over 30 podcast, I interview special guest, Frank Martin, co-author of The Right One: How to Successfully Date and Marry the Right Person. During this special interview, Frank gives some awesom...
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Season 3
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Episode 125
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30:07
How to Successfully Handle Rejection
Rejection. It's something no one wants to experience but everybody does. Because we ALL experience it, we all need to know how to successfully handle it. Handling rejection successfully can mean the difference between moving forwar...
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Season 3
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Episode 124
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17:55
How Long You Should Wait to "Make it Official"
There's all kinds of advice out there about how long you should wait to become exclusive or "make it official."Some people say you should date through the seasons. Some people say you should date for at least six months. Other people sa...
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Season 3
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Episode 123
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13:21
When He's Nice But Doesn't Fit What's on Your Checklist
He's nice and maybe he even treats you like a queen, but he doesn't check off everything that's on your list. What should you do? You don't want to lose a great guy but you don't want to settle either. In this episode, I'm sharing ...
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Season 3
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Episode 122
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10:41
What to Do When Dates Feel Awkward
Hi, Single Lady! First dates can feel awkward and uncomfortable. You can feel as if you're carrying the conversation. You can feel as if he is carrying the conversation. You can feel as if it's an interview. What are some things you can...
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Season 3
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Episode 120
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10:38
The First Step to Find a Great Relationship
Hey there, single lady! On the Single Over 30 podcast, I share about a variety of internal--and external--dating strategies to help you find--and attract--a trustworthy marriage-minded man. But there is ONE THING that ...
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Season 3
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Episode 119
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18:51
He Seems Really Interested, But Could He Be Mister Wrong?
He seems super interested--and you love his attention! Who wouldn't? It's nice when a man treats you like a queen. Is it possible, however, that a man seems super interested and he seems like Mister Right but he's Mister Wrong? Thi...
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Season 3
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Episode 118
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13:11
How to Meet More Men
One question I hear from single women all the time is, "How do I meet more men?" They also ask, "Where are all the men?" In this episode, I share practical tips to help you meet more men and improve your opportunities to meet your special, trus...
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Season 3
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Episode 117
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12:25